Sunday, September 27, 2009

Those were the days! (Then and Now...)

The other day, as two school-going kids from our building-cum-chawl were busy playing Mafia Wars on Facebook, my childhood chum Chinky and I were reminiscing the old times, picturing us in place of them; how we were at their age; and musing over how life was so different then than what it is now! With the advent of computers and the internet, kids and elders alike are missing out on so much!!

When we were little, as soon as the clock struck five, we’d run up to the terrace and play games like “Pakda Pakdi”, “Saakli”, “Dongar Paani”, “Sea-Sand-Water-Land”, “Chor-Police” “Fire-in-the-mountain”, and then advanced to cricket, cycling, badminton and skating as we grew up.
After sunset when it got too dark to see, we'd play our all-time favourite game- "Bhoot-Bhoot". After a round of "Een-Peen(Pin)-Septee(Safety)-Peen-Een-Peen-Out- Khelna Hai Toh Khelo Warna Get Out" (i still don't know what that means! :D), the unfortunate (or fortunate) one got to be the "Bhoot" (ghost). We'd dab talcum powder on his/her face till it got stark white and smear blood-red lipstick on the lips! Once the "Bhoot" was ready, we'd all go into hiding. There was only one place where we were allowed to hide- on the stairs that led to the terrace! Okay, I know it doesn't make much sense if the "Bhoot" already knows our hiding spot but that was the rule. You couldn't break it. Either you play by the rules- hide there and pretend to get scared when the "Bhoot" arrives, or don't play at all! Needless to say, our parents would always chase us around when they'd see the talcum powder bottle empty in a week's time! :D

We'd also play board games like "Scrabble", "Snakes & Ladders", "Ludo", "Scotland Yard", "Business". And at the onset of the monsoons, just before the first showers could hit the earth, we'd get the carrom board out that always lay behind the couch otherwise. Barbie dolls were also in vogue then. Chinky and I had a huge collection of them. We'd bathe them, dress them up, braid their hair, even got a whole kitchen set for them! Once, we even stitched clothes for them looking up different styles and patterns in tailoring books! I don't ever remember spending as much time grooming myself! :D


Summer vacation nights were spent playing "UNO" when we were allowed to sleep an hour late! :) And in the daytime, we went to some art class that we were enrolled for- drawing, glass-painting, calligraphy, candle-making and the like!

Television was also different then.
I remember regularly following shows like "Alif Laila", "Tenali Raman", "Surabhi" starring Renuka Shahane and Siddharth Kak, "Dekh Bhai Dekh", "Jaspal Bhatti", "Tehkikaat", "Mind Your Language" as well as the hindi version of it- "Zabaan Sambhaalke". Sundays were spent watching different versions of "Mahabharata" and "Ramayana"! And on weekdays, they'd air shows like "Different Strokes", "Small Wonder", "Silver Spoons", "Happy Days", "Three's Company", "I Dream of Jeannie" and "Bewitched". After a few years came shows like "Full House" and "F.R.I.E.N.D.S.". I still link Zee TV's Antakshari with Anu Kapoor and Pallavi Joshi.
Now, television has literally turned into an idiot box. After the much-awaited end of the era of family drama soaps, staged "Reality" shows took over and there's nothing worth watching anymore. Now, I switch on the TV only on Sundays to watch back-to-back re-runs of F.R.I.E.N.D.S. and Seinfeld sometimes.



Music was an out-of-the-world experience. I used to play songs by the Backstreet Boys, MJ, Aqua, Blue, Westlife and Steps (5-6-7-8) over and over again! I'd call up iTV and MTV Select (VJ Nikhil Chinnappa) and request for songs. Hindi albums were also one of a kind with groups like "Aryans", "Bombay Vikings", "Colonial Cousins", "Instant Karma", "Silk Route" and "Distant Voice". Singers like Lucky Ali, K.K., Sonu Nigam and Shaan will always be remembered and there will never be another A.R. Rahman. Music has taken a whole new definition now. Songs these days last for a week or two, they are forgotten as soon as another nasal singer comes in. No one now saves up their pocket money to buy that original Beatles CD, they just rip it off the internet!


Reading habits were also far more developed then than the case it is now. I spent my early teens competing with classmates on who would finish the "Nancy Drew" or the "Trixie Belden" series first. We'd name our groups as "The Famous Five" or "The Adventurous Four" after books by Enid Blyton. Our librarian would always cringe when she saw us coming, knowing we'd disturb her neatly arranged shelves again!

And when we were assigned a project in school, I'd scan through my folder of newspaper cuttings or through my collection of books and encyclopedias. We'd also go searching for books on the topic assigned to us, read up and collect information. Now, Google, a few clicks and Ctrl-F does everything for you. There's no effort put in at all!

In my late teens, I'd spend my evenings with Mona, Chinky, Alisha sipping on hot cutting chai in our balcony and talking for hours!

However much the Internet has benefitted man and shrunk the world into a small town, it has destroyed the simple joys of life. I agree it's nice to see kids getting tech-savvy at a younger age, but they've forgotten to run around and play. They no longer come home with their hands and legs dirty with muck, they've stopped getting endless scoldings from the neighbourhood society's uncle for breaking his window pane whilst playing cricket. "Katti-batti" does not exist anymore with fights only happening on playstations now. Gone are the days!

I wouldn't be surprised to see toddlers of the next generation going to pre-school nursery carrying PDAs.

I'm glad atleast I didn't miss out on any of it! I sigh as I recall every moment.. those were the days!

P.S: I don't know how much sense all of this made to you considering the examples I used everywhere. Indians who grew up in the 90s would be able to relate to this the best! :)

18 comments:

aditipatel said...

I could relate to each and everything. As I was reading, I could recall each and everything that I used to do and you've written the same here.
There's nothing like that now. Seriously those were the days.
Awesome post! :)

Abhishek said...

Oh yes. You would hardly remember the time of no cable, when the few programmes on Doordarshan were the only thing you could watch. They were good though ek shunya shunya, karamchand, Gi Joe and He Man. Bomkesh Bakshi and Tehquikat were good too.

Abhishek said...

Or even spending your summer climbing the compound wall at granny's to break badam off the tree :)

Mona said...

this brought back lots of memories. i cud relate 2 everything. i miss those days. we had so much fun & time den n now everyones jus in a hurry 2 get things done. i watched all those hindi shows alif laila n dekh bhai dekh...full house n friends... those were really the good old days... really liked this post...brougth back a whole lotta memories.... :)
Great Job....

Harsh said...

We used to play "hide n seek" .. n now they r playin "mafia wars" n "reign of vampires" .. lol ... gizmo kids ... :-P

I watched almost all of those tv programs u mentioned there .. specially "small wonder" ... they used to telecast the repeated episodes .. n i still used to sit n watch them .. ;-) .. P.S. I shared my date of birth with VICI ... :P

Perx said...

I can almost imagine someone blogging about 10 years from now... about "how we used to play and compete in mafia wars on facebook..... and how had to google and search for stuff on hundreds of pages.. the kids of today are too busy with their virtual pets and virtual friends to interact with anyone..."

anyway, having grown up in the 90s, i totally miss all of these things.. especially small wonder :(

Calvin Pereira said...

Brilliant stuff. I remember growing with sisters and playing most of the chick games... :P~ but I still love LUDO and Carrom....

Anubha said...

@aditipatel04
Yes those days will never come back now. Thanks dear! :)

@Abhishek
I only remember you rushing home in time for Star Trek! I have faint memories of He Man too! I don't remember climbing the compound wall, but I remember all of you jumping from a high concrete pillar at Godrej Colony once. I have very good memories of D-28 :)

@Mona
Yes, no one stops to just run and play, everyone's doing their own thing now! I'm glad atleast we could enjoy those things. Thanks anyway :)

@Harsh
Small Wonder was good. Mr. & Mrs. Lawson :)
When was Vicky's birthday?? I don't remember :(

@Perx
Yes someone will surely blog about Facebook and Orkut 10 years down the line... Change is inevitable. Sad. :(

@Calvin
Hehe you forgot Monopoly :P
I love carrom too! :)

Sakhi said...

Nostalgia, nostalgia :)

* Winds Of Change * said...

what can i say..u always bring my old time back..u realte to each n every lil thing and its so real so good..i rememeber my days use to play ding-ding ya rt !!!this was da name v gave for chuppa-chuppi v wer around 15 ppl to play that game..the one who had to catch those 14 ppl surely thought he wasi n hell cuz it was nearly very difficult to spy as all..it took them weeks to do that ..his dine would continue teh next day if he missedo ut anyone lol..and the game chor police it was liek gals v/s boyz v wer around 10 boys and 7 gals..who would by no chance liek to get surrendered..everytime i come acroos ur blog i always find sumthn for myself in here..sumthn i can relate to my past life..thnx a ton bhangii and ya u missed out one t.v serial MOGLI hehe That was my fav i guess everyones in here *JUNGLE JUNGLE BAAT CHALI PATA LAGA HAI AREY CHAADI PEHENKE TU NIKLA HAI TU NIKLA HAI" da soundtrack HAHAHA..Tit made me feel lighter nw thnx once again t.c n god bless u always bhangiii :)...

Anubha said...

@Winds of Change
Oh yes how could I forget Mowgli !! :D :D
I skipped a few more games too, like, "Langdi" and "Lock-n-Key" :)

Thanks dear !!

Mugdha said...

:-)
glad it's coming from you!
the net addict

Anubha said...

@Sakhi
:)

@Mugdha
Haahaa.. things have changed my dear :)

Abhang said...

The enjoyment you get after breaking the neighbour's window glass pane while playing cricket inside the buiding..:).... that can't be explained here... every childhood is special in it's own way ...:)

Anubha said...

@Abhang
Totally!! :)

Raghava Kumar said...

Great! You took me into reminiscence. Hey, it would be good if you include some programmes in DD like surabhi, dekh bhai dekh, tehkikaat, reporter, chandrakanta etc.,

Anubha said...

@Raghava Kumar
Thanks dear! :)
And hey, I have already mentioned most of those programmes, I think you missed them!

Raghava Kumar said...

Sorry for my oversight! I was thinking a lot how did I play ludo and chinese checkers. So, I missed dem :). I used to sit infront of the TV on fridays at 7.30pm for chitrahaar.